Dating rich women south africa
Learn more, including about available controls: Cookies Policy.The beauty of a person may not be immediately apparent in the beginning.I’m not stupid enough to say things like “I don’t see colour”, or to claim that there aren’t differences between my girlfriend and I that are predicated on our respective races.But as far as I’m concerned, our differences – both the racial ones and and all the others – are precisely what make our relationship so much more interesting and intricate than the reductive narratives that so many people try to project upon us.
But how many people in South Africa, and elsewhere no doubt, are dramatically reducing the pool from which they might be able to draw someone really love, just by their inability to consider being with someone who happens to have a different skin colour?
When I took my partner to England for the first time last year, an uncle reproached me for not “warning” him that she was black. Again, they don’t seem to stop to think that maybe I love my girlfriend for who she is, not for her colour.
Even more strange, my friends kept mistakenly calling my partner by my black ex-girlfriend’s name. They just think I have a thing for “black girls” so therefore they also have a chance to be with me.
Interestingly, even most of the numerous sources that criticized this article failed to acknowledge this gaping hole in a conversation (of sorts) about a country where 70% of the population are black.
Aside from being generally crass, sexist, offensive and reeking of sour grapes, Jonno Douchface’s article entirely failed to acknowledge that there is in fact such a thing as a BLACK South African “girl”.